Tweeting to the Glory of God?

May 14th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

Our denomination recently published a short article on social networking. It’s addressed to ministry leaders, but I think the content will prove helpful to anyone.

Love it or hate it, we relate and communicate via status updates, tweets and blog posts. As believers, we must determine whether these technologies can be used redemptively.

I intend to ruminate on that subject shortly, so stay tuned.

In the meantime, check out Jacques Elllul’s 76 questions by which to determine the merits of a given technology.

And…We’re Back

May 7th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

Given our son’s recent arrival, I’ve been out of commission for the past few weeks. Excited to get back in the saddle (both the work saddle and the blogging saddle, among other saddles). Here are a few exciting recent developments.

  1. Jacob Kenneth Bruce was born on April 20th, 2012 at 11:11 p.m. He weighed 7 lbs, 14 ounces, and was 20 inches long. I’m so grateful for this little guy, my wife’s health, and the tidal wave of love and support we’ve received from our church family. I think we have meals for the next six years or so. To everyone who has expressed love, prayed, or provided a meal (or yard work, or anything else), thank you.
  2. Creekside’s new and improved membership process is up and running! We had our first membership intensive on May 5th, and 24 people attended. I was stoked to see so many people eager and willing to partner with us for the advancement of Christ’s kingdom. I’ll be writing more on membership in the near future, so stay tuned.
  3. Our small group year is coming to an end. It’s been a wonderful year. And fear not, sweet stuff is happening this summer. A’s games, BBQ’s, an epic competition of some kind to kick off the 2012 olympics, and so much more. Looking forward to it!

Cool Upcoming Stuff

April 16th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

Hey Everyone,

Here are two things you should know about. One is happening soon and the other in a few months.

  1. Membership Intensive: If you’ve been at Creekside for awhile and want to join the team, come to our one day membership intensive. It’s from 9:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 5th. You’ll learn about what we believe, how we’re structured, and what role you can play. Light refreshments will be provided. To sign up, email me.
  2. Men’s Retreat: Our annual Men’s Retreat is September 28th-30th at Mt. Hermon, Santa Cruz, CA. I realize this is a few months off,  but I’m pumped because Justin Buzzard is  going to speak to us about dating our wives (check out his new book on the subject). Justin is a guy I  respect and desire to imitate as he pursues Christ. Guys, save this date. Trust me, your wives  want you to be there.

A Little Ministry Advice from the Late Steve Jobs

April 9th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

Ok, not really.

However, what he says has massive ministry implications.

Here’s what he says about innovation in a 2004 interview:

“And it comes from saying no to 1,000 things to make sure we don’t get on the wrong track or try to do too much. We’re always thinking about new markets we could enter, but it’s only by saying no that you can concentrate on the things that are really important.”

Business breakthroughs come from saying no to lots of things. Something similar could be said of breakthroughs in ministry. Don’t overestimate your ability to do lots of things effectively. Don’t underestimate your ability to do a few things really, really well. Ministry is people, and in my experience, “people growth” is incredibly slow and incredibly costly. However, it is incredibly rewarding.

Invest wisely and invest well. And don’t mistake busyness for effectiveness.

Baptism!

April 8th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

If you’re a follower of Jesus and you’ve never been baptized, you should do so ASAP.

Creekside will be baptizing people on April 29th during second service (10:30 a.m.).

In accordance with Christ’s command, make a public declaration of  your allegiance to Jesus and your membership in his body.

Sign up by emailing John Bruce.

Up and Coming

April 2nd, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

Greetings Everyone,

Just a few things to put on your calendar in the upcoming month.

On April 15th, check out Lunch on Us at Creekside. You’ll eat a meal with the staff and learn about Creekside’s history, mission, vision, and values. If you’re interested in joining Creekside, this event is for you. RSVP to Sharon Wallace.

On April 28th, we’re hosting a gargantuan garage sale. Shop for treasures and support San Leandro High School’s Athletic, Music, and Theater programs. The sale will take place in Creekside’s parking lots on Saturday, starting at 8:00 a.m.This is a great opportunity to love your city.

Stay in the Loop

March 26th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

If you want to know what’s happening at Creekside generally, check out The Loop.

It’s Creekside’s news feed. We just got it up and running a few weeks ago. If I don’t mention something significant here, it’s likely to be mentioned there.

Corrections Weigh More Than Affirmations

March 17th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

The drag that corrections have on a relationship is compounded by the fact that they already outweigh affirmations – they have greater impact individually. The sting of a rebuke outweighs the fresh whiff of a bouquet. A person sniffing the flowers when a bee stings quickly forgets the flowers even if the bouquet is very large. If a pattern of corrections is outweighing the affirmations, the sting stays with us, and the corrections keep picking the scab. It takes many affirmations to overcome the impact of a criticism, because criticisms are heavier and sting more. Worse than a bee sting, criticism can be like a sword thrust: “There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing” (Prov. 12:18).

When the Bible describes some words as sword thrusts, we are helped to understand how painful words outweigh healing words. It simply won’t do, when a sword wound has been inflicted, to put salve and a bandage on a wound for one minute, or one hour, or one day. It takes more time to heal than to wound. So it is with affirmations and corrections. It can take a lot of affirmations to heal a particularly painful correction, even if the correction was as necessary as the wound from an emergency appendectomy.

Sam Crabtree, Practicing Affirmation: God-Centered Praise of Those Who Are Not God (Wheaton, Ill: Crossway, 2008); 47-48.

Ugh. I don’t know about you, but my correction/affirmation ratio is all screwed up. May we correct when necessary, but may we never bypass an opportunity to affirm God’s grace in others.

So…How Do I Actually Live on Mission?

March 14th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

If you’ve looked at our minimalistic webpage, you’ve discovered that our ministry has three distinctives; the gospel, the church, and the city. We want to live all of life (1) in light of the gospel, (2) in the context of community, and (3) for the sake of the city. I plan to write more on these distinctives in the coming weeks (or months!). In the meantime, I’d encourage you to check out the GCM Collective which exists, “to promote, create and equip Gospel Communities on Mission.” In other words, this organization exists to resource communities such as ours. To whet your appetite, here’s an article by Jonathan Dodson, which offers 8 easy ways to be missional;

Missional is not an event we tack onto our already busy lives. It is our life. Mission should be the way we live, not something we add onto life: “As you go, make disciples….”; “Walk wisely towards outsiders”; “Let your speech always be seasoned with salt”; “be prepared to give a defense for your hope”. We can be missional in everyday ways without overloading our schedules. Here are a few suggestions:

1. Eat with Non-Christians. We all eat three meals a day. Why not make a habit of sharing one of those meals with a non-Christian or with a family of non-Christians? Go to lunch with a co-worker, not by yourself. Invite the neighbors over for family dinner. If it’s too much work to cook a big dinner, just order pizza and put the focus on conversation. When you go out for a meal invite others. Or take your family to family-style restaurants where you can sit at the table with strangers and strike up conversation. Cookout and invite Christians and non-Christians. Flee the Christian subculture.

2. Walk, Don’t Drive. If you live in a walkable area, make a practice of getting out and walking around your neighborhood, apartment complex, or campus. Instead of driving to the mailbox, convenience store, or apartment office, walk to get mail, groceries, and stuff. Be deliberate in your walk. Say hello to people you don’t know. Strike up conversations. Attract attention by walking the dog, taking a 6-pack (and share), bringing the kids. Make friends. Get out of your house! Take interest in your neighbors. Ask questions. Pray as you go. Save some gas, the planet, and some people.

3. Be a Regular. Instead of hopping all over the city for gas, groceries, haircuts, eating out, and coffee, go to the same places. Get to know the staff. Go to the same places at the same times. Smile. Ask questions. Be a regular. I have friends at coffee shops all over the city. My friends at Starbucks donate a ton of left over pastries to our church 2-3 times a week. We use them for church gatherings and occasionally give to the homeless. Build relationships. Be a Regular.

4. Hobby with Non-Christians. Pick a hobby that you can share. Get out and do something you enjoy with others. Try City League sports. Local rowing and cycling teams. Share your hobby by teaching lessons. Teach sewing lessons, piano lessons, violin, guitar, knitting, tennis lessons. Be prayerful. Be intentional. Be winsome. Have fun. Be yourself.

5. Talk to Your Co-workers. How hard is that? Take your breaks with intentionality. Go out with your team or task force after work. Show interest in your co-workers. Pick four and pray for them. Form mom groups in your neighborhood and don’t make them exclusively Christian. Schedule play dates with the neighbors’ kids. Work on mission.

6. Volunteer with Non-Profits. Find a non-profit in your part of the city and take Saturday a month to serve your city. Bring your neighbors, your friends, or your small group. Spend time with your church serving your city. Once a month. You can do it!

7. Participate in City Events. Instead of playing X-Box, watching TV, or surfing the net, participate in city events. Go to fundraisers, festivals, clean-ups, summer shows, and concerts. Participate missionally. Strike up conversation. Study the culture. Reflect on what you see and hear. Pray for the city. Love the city. Participate with the city.

8. Serve your Neighbors. Help a neighbor by weeding, mowing, building a cabinet, fixing a car. Stop by the neighborhood association or apartment office and ask if there is anything you can do to help improve things. Ask your local Police and Fire Stations if there is anything you can do to help them. Get creative. Just serve!

Don’t make the mistake of making “missional” another thing to add to your schedule. Instead, make your existing schedule missional.

Men’s Breakfast!

March 12th, 2012 by jeff@creeksidecommunity.org

There’s a Men’s Breakfast this St. Patty’s Day.

Saturday, March 17th. 8:00 a.m.

@ Church

All donations for the breakfast go towards our Men’s Retreat.

I’ll be speaking about the meaning of manhood.

If you’re interested in coming,

contact Joe Grijalvah.